Student success is often measured by how impressive a child's resume is as they prepare competitive applications for college admission.The pursuit of success has resulted in students becoming self-conscious, insecure, and saddened by the successes of their peers.Educators must remind students to enjoy their moments and stop chasing the supposed greener grass. Comparison robs us of joy.Every student has their own unique path, and it's up to them to nurture it. Success isn't about comparison but about learning and growing.Students should seek out the full picture and discover that their own yard is just as lush and inviting as distant green pastures.Educators should guide students towards healthy reflection and support them in leaning in and trusting their own journeys.Simple, small steps like including reflection-based questions in assignments can help plant the seed for students to blossom.In the end, celebrating individual journeys, nurturing our own gardens, and seeking the whole picture is crucial in finding joy and success.