<ul data-eligibleForWebStory="true">The internet's memory is no longer private - it's becoming collective.Apple's integration of on-device AI and iCloud data blurs the line between private and collective memory.Memory in the future could be automated, outsourced, and no longer under our control.Data deletion often remains an illusion with backend retention of data even after compliance.Even privacy-focused companies retain significant metadata, moving control of data away from users.Current models of digital consent like opt-ins and cookie pop-ups fail to address the core issue of data ownership and control.Platforms increasingly use AI and predictive systems, using user data without explicit consent for various purposes.The design of infrastructure with baked-in ownership like SourceLess challenges the notion that every action must be owned by others indefinitely.Choosing infrastructure that respects user control over their data is crucial for future autonomy.New tools aligned with consent and control are needed to manage memory selectively in the digital era.