<ul data-eligibleForWebStory="true">Brandon Wade, founder of Seeking.com, emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in love.Success in dating requires understanding oneself before seeking external strategies.Wade discovered that fulfillment in relationships comes from within, not external factors.Self-awareness, not algorithms, is crucial in dating to uncover needs and boundaries.Clarity of intent should start before the first date through introspection and reflection.Wade shifted Seeking.com's focus to align with a deeper philosophy of emotional readiness.He emphasizes the connection between personal and romantic growth, advocating for alignment in values.Dating success begins with self-awareness and purpose, not just hoping for chemistry.Approaching relationships with clarity and intentionality leads to sustainable connections.Intentional love involves self-discipline, patience, and a willingness to show vulnerability.