The theme for today's NYT Strands game #464 is 'Mind your manners'.Clue words to play for hint #2: PALE, STOP, TRACE, THAN, POET, LIPS.Today's spangram has 8 letters, and it touches the first side at the top of the 3rd column and the last side at the bottom of the 3rd column.The answers for game #464 are: APOLOGIZE, RESPECT, SHARE, THANK, LISTEN, CONSIDER, with the SPANGRAM being BE POLITE.