<ul><li>The update reveals that the letter-writer did meet up with her friend-with-benefits during the work trip.</li><li>She informed her team about her plans and received approval from her manager.</li><li>As they are both lesbians, the writer believes that their dinner and private hangout wouldn't raise much suspicion.</li><li>The writer expresses gratitude towards Alison and commenters for providing advice on conference norms and setting realistic expectations.</li></ul>

update: can I bring a friend-with-benefits back to my hotel on a work trip?

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