Receiving a 'no' in different professional situations can lead to the natural instinct of wanting to know why, but the honesty behind the rejection may vary.
In industries like tech, investment, and consulting, rejections are often softened with polite or vague responses that may not reflect the true reasons.
Asking for feedback may not always result in honest answers, as people tend to avoid causing discomfort or engaging in a debate.
Learning to accept a 'no' without seeking detailed justifications can be empowering and help in moving forward to improve ideas.
The value may lie not in the reasons given for rejection, but in how one chooses to respond to it by refining ideas and seeking understanding elsewhere.
Continuing to progress despite rejections can lead to receiving valuable feedback later on, showing resilience and dedication to growth.
Rather than focusing on extracting the truth from rejections, the key is to build something of such high quality that others regret saying 'no' initially.
It is important to ask why when there is potential gain, but also crucial to remember that not all feedback will be completely transparent.
Allowing 'no' responses to drive one towards creating something better can be a powerful motivator for growth and success.