Reflexive thinkers, open to diverse perspectives and cognitively flexible need to invest extra time in self-care and 'switching off'.
Person B appears to be more reflexive and more capable of holding conflicting ideas in their head, making them more effective at bridging gaps between diverse groups.
Person A has an easy answer when things go wrong: 'The system works, so any failure must be due to individual shortcomings or lack of effort'.
If you identify more with Person B, you will need to spend extra time taking care of yourself, as emotional labor, perspective-taking, navigating cognitive dissonance, and reflexivity are not 'free' and can be draining.
Reflexivity is the ability to critically reflect on one's beliefs, experiences, and context, and through doing that, develop a deeper understanding of how these factors influence one's perspectives and actions.
Emotional labor, epistemic relativism, perspective-taking, navigating cognitive dissonance, and reflexivity are draining and are not 'free'.
If you dig yourself into a hole too deep, you risk diminishing the skills you hold dear and being polarizing.