Understanding something is different from accepting it, as acceptance is about being with what actually is, not pushing it away or getting consumed by it.
Real acceptance is a quiet process, not necessarily feeling okay but not resisting what's present either.
Acceptance is not a reaction but a state that requires being deeply honest with oneself and not falling into biases or excuses.
The process of acceptance involves staying with what's happening without resistance or avoidance, allowing for a clearer understanding of oneself and the situation.